Boxed in by the day

With the holidays fast approaching, it's one of those Sundays that feels more like a Monday. Today I need to.

1. Get the leaves off the roof (with Mary)
2. Submit my Obamacare application for 2025, since I know that next weekend Natalie and Graham will be around and it will be even worse than this weekend and I'm sure not going to let this slide towards the last weekends of the annual enrollment period
3. Play a league tennis match in the afternoon against Eamonn, who smoked me in the spring
4. Get to the pet store for food for Leon (don't ask why I will draw this straw)
5. Hit my 500 daily pont quoate on DuoLingo

I apologize for laying down what is essentially a task list. But all this makes it feel an awful lot liek a work day.

This after going to Snapper Hackney's memorial service yesterday. I'm glad I went. It was another reminder of just how much a segregated school within a school I was in when I was younger. As I'm sure I said before, I knew the black guys at some very superficial level through trying (with varying, mostly low levels of success) to play basketball but really knew almost none of the black women. The problem by now is that the black guys are dying at younger ages than the black women (Snapper, Chris Tate, Freddy, Alton and Elton Harris, Russell Dula, Ivan McClam, Harry Alston, to name a few that come to mind off the top of my head). The women are hanging on.

It was a very traditional black southern Gospel service. I won't expand deeply on that, save to say there were many moments where I -- and even Lisa and Amy -- didn't know just what to do (Ellen Weaver gave us some guidance at one crucial moment). My overarching impression was that there were a lot more people I knew there from high school than I'm used to seeing at funerals and that what remains of the Chapel Hill African-American community seems admirably tight.